With 18 PSI from gravity, if you use large enough pipe and drill out shower heads and such, you should not even need a pump. That would be the best thing for an off grid system, no energy use at all. However, if you want more pressure you can use as small as a 1/2 HP jet pump. This will add about 40 PSI to the 18 you have coming. I would use a couple of big bladder pressure tanks and no Cycle Stop Valve. Anytime the pump is running you want max flow for the KW being used. Letting the pump run at max flow and storing the excess in a pressure tank is the best way to do that.