I just went down to my well and AGAIN it's cycling...so, I took apart the main valve and looked inside and the seating area under the main diaphragm doesn't have any red powder coat on it anymore. I wasn't able to take a pic since I didn't have my phone and I wasn't planning on having to do this as I was hoping it was functioning normally. The bottom of the main valve's diaphragm looks pretty good.
I put that back together ensuring the notches in the main body and diaphragm lined up. I flushed the outlet side flex line , that goes between the pilot and the top of the main valve, and it had tons of flow and psi, not sure if this is normal or what considering it should probably have a regulated flow coming out of the pilot valve. I buttoned everything up and started the well, and again it started cycling...so I opened up the bleeder on the y-strainer flush port and ran for a few seconds, closed it up and the main valve started working again...This really makes me think that the pilot valve is getting hung up and when I open the y-strainer flush port it "jogs" the pilot to control the pilot output psi to the main valve...
Heck, I don't know, I'm just guessing but I sure need this fixed or my pump is going to blow apart...PLEASE HELP CARY .