Hmm, that's interesting. It certainly should run for over a minute. Is it safe to run the well dry repeatedly? I had heard from the driller who replaced the
pump for us 5 years ago that it can cause sediment kickup and other issues that I don't recall.
Would it make sense to add a flow restriction and also a pressure bypass valve (maybe a Poppet or something) so that the well pump would not be able to build over a certain pressure. Below that pressure, it would flow through the flow restriction, and above it, it would flow through the bypass. I would guess this would mean that it would run through the bypass until the water level dropped in the well to a certain height, and after that it would run through the restricted pipe. I'm not sure what the lifespan of a Poppet valve is though and if it could go through repeated cycles. I know they're usually used as a pressure relief to atmosphere.
Come to think of it, would a similar set up work to bypass the CSV if I didn't do a cistern? If the worst case situation of low flow and high water occurred, it would bypass and I would be left with the existing behavior of the well (cycle on/off as the pressure tank fills/drains), and when the water is lower and/or the flow is higher such that the pressure doesn't build above a safe number, water would flow through the CSV. I'm mostly interested in constant pressure for things like showers, etc, which are 3 GPM+ shower heads in my house, and its fairly rare for the water level to be at 100 ft. I just checked it before posting now (I have an Enoscientific Well Sounder) and its at 240 ft currently. I would still use HDPE for all piping prior to the CSV inside instead of PEX to avoid the 150 PSI rating that Uponor gives their PEX -- I'm sure I can find a supplier with SIDR7 (250 PSI) sticks of pipe or something like that to use.
What are your thoughts on both of the options I proposed (bypass into cistern, and/or bypass across CSV) and both compared to just using a Cycle Sensor. (BTW, I do already have a Cycle Sensor, because I ran into enough instances of running the well dry and I was concerned with damaging the pump. Its a great product! So with any of these options I still would have a Cycle Sensor in there to protect the pump "just in case.")