The CSV1A valve cannot close completely, so it can never deadhead the pump. The 90 PSI on the pump is normal. With the pump shutting off at 60 PSI, that means there is 30 PSI differential across the CSV. With 30 PSI differential across the non-closing CSV, that means you have a minimum flow of about ¾ of a GPM. This is plenty to keep the pump cool, no deadheading. I don’t usually leave a gauge on the pump side of the CSV, as that just seems to confuse people. When you close off all the faucets, the pump builds up to 60 and shuts off, which means it is still moving enough water to stay cool.
Don’t sweat it. Just enjoy the constant pressure and lack of pump cycling.
The relief valve needs to be installed after the CSV, and it need to pop open if the pressure ever get to about 75 PSI.