ROFLMAO! I would not be calling myself a "Pump and Tank" person if I didn't know pumps any better than that. Back pressure is good for a pump. Cycling on and off or varying the speed is the worst thing you can do to a pump. You are already running 40 to 60 PSI on the surface, and the 100' to water adds another 50 PSI to that. So, for your pump to supply you any water at all it must be able to build at least 110 PSI back pressure.
110 PSI is how much back pressure your depth and working pressure cause to the pump. All the CSV does is make the pump think it is in a deeper well so it can supply less water when you need it to do that. That pump can easily work in a deeper well, it just pumps less water from a deeper depth.
Even 160# pipe can easily handle that kind of pressure as the burst pressure of pipe is 2-5 times the rated pressure. Not having enough back pressure on a pump is hard on a pump. Varying the speed is hard on a pump. Variable speed controllers are expensive, don't last very long, cause pumps to not last very long, and give a multitude of other problems.
The CSV was designed to replace troublesome and expensive VFD's or variable speed pumps, and has done so many hundreds of thousands of times since 1993 when we started CSV. Any pump man who hasn't studied this in the last 30 years and doesn't know VFD's are a money pit and the back pressure from a Cycle Stop Valve is a good thing should not be promoting stuff when he has no idea how pumps work.