A 3/4HP, 10 GPM pump will produce 9 GPM from 220' of head. 62 PSI is the same as 143'. So the pump is probably lifting from about 77' deep. A 1HP, 10 GPM pump would give you 35 PSI more. 62 PSI should peal your skin off in the shower, IF it is making it to the shower. The softener and 3 stage filter maybe robbing you of 20-30 PSI. A pressure gauge on any faucet after the filters will give you this reading, which must be taken while using the 9 GPM flow. If this is correct you will need a larger pump and more pressure to push through the filters, or filters with less friction loss. Also make sure all the cartridges are clean. Or you can just take the cartridges out to test the pressure loss.
Of course a 1HP pump is not going to stay at 80 PSI while using 9 GPM, it will cycle on and off between 70 and 90. That is when you need the CSV1A to hold a constant 80 PSI or whatever pressure you want while using as much or as little water as needed in the house.
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